My Marianismo: Unburdening Myself

This space is for you and your inner child to unpack this intergenerational trauma that has you performing and people pleasing. Or maybe you feel distant and numb when you want to soften but don’t know how to start.

This space is intentional for those who have done inner child work and want to dive deeper into their mother wounds due to colonization and patriarchy.

We center our cultural burdens and legacy resources are our guide and our tools.

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8 week 1.5hour coaching journey with resources


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My Mother Wounds

8 week private 1:1 journey

This virtual 1:1 coaching container is for all genders and centers the intergenerational trauma of Afro, Indigenous, Black, Native Islanders, Those of of Latine lineage and the Caribbean Diaspora whom were colonized by Spain or have roots in Catholicism. This includes first and 2nd generation children of immigrants.
This space is for anyone who wants to set boundaries without guilt, live their life for themselves, reconnect with their authentic joy, and create healthy love for themselves and the next 7 generations.

Bi-Monthly Healing Sessions

8 1.5 hour virtual sessions

we agree on a schedule

Comprehensive Resource Kit

Supportive space

Flexible Payment Plans


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Mother Wounds move through the roots

How Expansive would the femmes in your lineage be in safety?

Our group holds space for the history, grief, and silence the women in our lineages have lived through and assess what we are still carrying. Step into your Ser.

How does Madre Tierra Mother you?

We explore ways in which the 4 elements support us and how to soften to Madre Tierra as a co-regulator. We use somatic approaches to awaken your inner ancestor and sharpen your intuition.
We honor the 4 directions and our ancestral guides as a deeper intuitive knowing.

How would you come home to yourself with confidence and compassion?

If you feel overwhelmed by always doing, giving and perfecting, we feel you! Marianismo wounds look like people pleasing and perfectionism as a great resource to survive. Now let’s build a safe home for our inner child to come home to and thrive in. We address root issues and support your bloom.

What is Marianismo?

“The counterpart to machismo is marianismo, which is a set of values and expectations concerning female gender roles. Marianismo emphasizes the role of women as family- and home-centered; it encourages passivity, self-sacrifice, and chastity” (Gil & Velazquez, 1996; Niemann, 2004). This is a deeper dive into the impacts of Marianismo on the physical health of femmes in our roots and how it impacts our daily lives and relationships now.  

Marianismo is a term coined by Chicano Scholars to give inclusive language to the values in our culture that are rooted in religion and patriarchy. When we live out these values they become a behavior and create a code in our DNA that is passed down to us as our epigenetics.

This could look like being the caregiver, the giver, the one that care for everyone first and themselves last (if at all).  This value was a virtue in our ancestor’s era as it was a skill to survive.  This virtue benefitted  capitalism at the cost of one’s physical, emotional and spiritual body. 

This group addresses OUR root trauma around colonization and the attachment and scarcity that has created in us. We unpack our mother’s wounds and re-pair false beliefs created out of toxic stress responses. We practice self forgiveness and grace through somatic and soft approaches .

Healing is not just a personal journey, it’s a collective one deeply rooted in indigenous wisdom and practices. This program honors the traditions and knowledge passed down through generations, focusing on intergenerational trauma within Latinx and marginalized communities.

We deserve softness in real time.

Our virtual healing circles  and 1:1 coaching offers the tools and support you need to heal past wounds, reconnect with your true self, and improve your relationships. By integrating indigenous practices, we tap into a rich source of healing that respects and elevates our ancestral heritage. 

My Marianismo: unburdening myself, it’s about time

My Marianismo: Unburdening Myself is the only space of its  kind because the framework is curated by Cynthia Perez after research, ancestral wisdom and career experience working with our cultura to embody the healing work. 

Join a community of like-minded people who are also on their path to healing and growth. Our virtual sessions are designed to provide a safe and supportive environment where we can explore our inner worlds and reclaim our joy together.

We focus on creating spaces that honor joy, creativity, and compassion, ensuring our approach is inclusive and culturally respectful.

 Let’s honor our ancestors, heal our present, and build a better future for generations to come.

We carry the strength of our ancestors within us.

We focus on creating spaces that honor joy, creativity, and compassion, ensuring our approach is inclusive and culturally respectful.

Now is the perfect time to invest in your healing and create a future filled with joy and authenticity.


Heal your inner ancestor

Guided by Experience:

About Cynthia Perez

I’m Cynthia Alonzo Perez, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over 15 years of experience in the mental health and wellness field. My mission is to create compassionate spaces where individuals can heal intergenerational trauma, reconnect with their authentic selves, and practice self-compassion.

I believe in the power of joy, creativity, and cultural wisdom as pathways to healing. My programs are designed to provide a safe and supportive environment where you can explore your inner world, uncover your inherent strengths, and transform your life. I incorporate a variety of modalities such as sound, senses, play, journaling, guided visualization, and ceremonial platica to facilitate deep healing.

 

What People Are Saying

“These workshops allow me to grow as a clinician and as a person. I look forward to attending other trainings”

Sonia



“I really appreciated this space. I feel like I had the opportunity to revisit and address aspects of my childhood and identity that were previously neglected. I feel better able to identify areas in need of improvement and am more open to personal growth.”

 

Jennifer



“Unlearning with my Inner Child has been the healing I didn’t know I need. Cynthia’s approach and creativity made this a space I looked forward to every week.”

Diane




Here’s What You Can Expect Each Week

The Journey

The Roots

We start with our colonized roots and the feelings surrounding these experiences. We hold space for epigenetic protection and our ancestor’s journey to survial and how we mirror these deep roots. 

The Thorns

Understanding our Legacy Burdens and the protectors we created to survive are key pieces to building more awareness. We practice empathy for our lack and embody the safety we seek.

Techniques for Releasing Trauma

Participate in healing rituals that incorporate indigenous practices. Engage in a ceremonial platica to share stories and wisdom, and use journaling prompts to process and release emotional burdens.

The Leaves

We aren’t just our historical trauma, we are our legacy gifts and our divine magic. Let’s claim our gifts and release the knee jerk reaction to shrink, be humble, or minimize our wonderful legacy gift, our leaves.  

The Stem

Use guided visualizations and our senses to unblock our ancestral legacy resources and tap into our most authentic self. This is strengthening our epigenetic flow and building our emotional capacity. 

Strategies for Long-Term Healing and Growth

We build our medicine bag for our personal rituals and repair. 

The Petals- Blooming

Celebrating our essence, our shapeshifting, our ability to create magic out of mud! We honor our growth and our gifts as our rose to protect. 

Sew Seeds: Setting Future Intentions

Prepare for the future by setting clear intentions for ongoing healing and growth. 

Break Free from What’s Holding You Back

We understand that taking the first step towards healing can be daunting. You might be wondering if this program is the right fit for you, if you have the time, or if you will truly see the benefits. Let us address these concerns head-on:

“I don’t have enough time to commit to this program.”

We meet twice a month for 2 hours. Our sessions are designed to fit into your busy schedule while providing maximum impact. You’ll also have access to resources and journal prompts to work on at your own pace. This structure ensures that even the busiest individuals can participate and benefit from the program.

“I’m not sure if this program will work for me.”

Our approach is grounded in proven methods and tailored to marginalized communities. Hear from others who have transformed their lives through our program and see the change for yourself. Our program blends psychosocial science, epigenetics, and indigenous practices, ensuring a holistic healing experience.

“I’m worried about opening up old wounds.”

Healing can be challenging, but you won’t be alone. Our supportive community and compassionate guidance ensure you have the support you need every step of the way. We create a safe space for you to explore and heal, with the assurance that your well-being is our top priority.

“I can’t afford the program right now.”

We believe that healing should be accessible to everyone. That’s why we offer flexible payment plans to fit your budget. You can choose to pay in installments, making it easier to manage the cost. Additionally, we offer a limited number of scholarships for those in need. Don’t let finances stand in the way of your healing journey.

Take the first step towards a happier, healthier you. Break free from your doubts and join our healing community.


Contact Us

All 2024 Summer Healing Spaces

Re-parenting my Inner Child with Indigeneous Joy

Mondays, 6-8 PM PST

June 10, 24
July 8, 22
August 5, 19
$999

Re-parenting My Inner Child While Parenting My Child

Fridays, 2-4 PM PST

June 14, 28
July 5, 19
August 2, 16

My Marianismo: Unburdening Myself

This group is for those who has done inner child work and attended Rooted in Reflection workshops and want to dive deeper into their mother wounds due to colonization and patriarchy.

My Marianismo: Energy Healing Circle

Unblock intergenerational trauma and connect with your divine energy through energy healing practices.



Re-parenting my Inner Child with Indigeneous Joy

Mondays, 6-8 PM PST

June 10, 24
July 8, 22
August 5, 19
$999

Re-parenting My Inner Child While Parenting My Child

Fridays, 2-4 PM PST

June 14, 28
July 5, 19
August 2, 16

My Marianismo: Unburdening Myself

This group is for those who has done inner child work and attended Rooted in Reflection workshops and want to dive deeper into their mother wounds due to colonization and patriarchy.

My Marianismo: Energy Healing Circle

Unblock intergenerational trauma and connect with your divine energy through energy healing practices.